FREE Event: Toledo Memorial Park’s Annual Car Show

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
July 22, 2024

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Sylvania, OH—Toledo Memorial Park (the Park) will hold their annual car show on Sunday, Aug. 18, 2024, from 10 a.m.-2 p.m. This fun family event benefits the Wreaths Across America program, led locally by your team at the Park.

            “I look forward to the car show every summer,” said Mel Harbaugh, local coordinator of Wreaths Across America. “We celebrate our community while giving back to those who served during this long-standing event.”

            Visitors can expect to see approximately three-to-four hundred unique and classic cars at the event along with food trucks, 50/50 drawings, door prizes and more.

            “The car show has been going for more than a decade, it’s a great bookend to summer here at the Park,” said Jeff Clegg, president of Toledo Memorial Park. “We love our Sylvania community, and the car show is a great example of our dedication to serving the community through events, fulfilling partnerships, supporting other community events and so much more.”

Upcoming Events:
Annual Car Show
Sunday, Aug. 18, 10 a.m.-2 p.m.
Rain date: Sunday, Aug. 25.

Join the Park president, Jeff Clegg and Wreaths Across America local coordinator, Mel Harbaugh for this fun family event and show your support for the community and our local fallen heroes.

Ridin’ Late in County 48
Saturday, Aug. 24:
Slow ride: 8-10 p.m.
Afterparty: 10 p.m.-midnight
Register here

This family friendly slow bicycle ride under the night sky is on a carefully planned route that features neighborhoods, parks and even the Park. Toledo Memorial Park is a proud sponsor of this long-running 9-mile ride event.

Wreaths Across America
Saturday, Dec. 14 at noon

Remember the Fallen. . . Honor those who Serve. . . Teach our children the value of Freedom.

Experience a touching ceremony with wreath placement immediately following at Toledo Memorial Park Cemetery and Mausoleum. This special event will remember and honor veterans by laying remembrance wreaths on the graves of our country's fallen heroes.

Please help us honor and remember as many fallen heroes as possible by sponsoring remembrance wreaths, volunteering on Wreaths Day, or inviting your family and friends to attend with you.

Specific grave requests at the cemetery can be made by contacting the location coordinator, Mel Harbaugh, at 46elapid@gmail.com to help ensure wreath placement.

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Toledo Memorial Park

Established in 1922, Toledo Memorial Park is the area’s finest cemetery, with 380 beautiful acres of meadows, ponds, magnificent trees, flowering plants and sculptures all designed to celebrate the living beauty of nature. Our goal has been to create a peaceful retreat where generations can gather in beauty and tranquility to remember their loved ones. The non-sectarian, non-denominational, non-profit Park is solely owned by property owners who believe in family, choices and commitment. The Park includes a crematory, mausoleums, chapels, columbariums and burial sections accommodating both lawn level memorials and upright monuments and provides for all individual preferences including earth burial, mausoleum entombment, cremation and inurnment. For more information visit www.ToledoMemorialPark.com or call (419) 882-7151.

A Field of Passion and Dedication: Find Fulfillment in the Death Care Workspace

While there may be a perceived air of sadness and darkness around the idea of the death care industry, what you’ll find if you ask those who work in the field is quite the opposite. This important service field consists of many types of jobs. From funeral directors, to embalmers, to counselors and more, you’ll find people who care and are fulfilled by helping you and your family through a difficult time.

Abigail Price, a celebrant from the United Kingdom, says most people who inquire about her work say things like, “I don’t know how you do it.” But she goes on to say helping families is her favorite part of the job. She comments that they often find themselves laughing and happy together as they discuss precious memories of their loved one while planning a service.

Christa Ovenell, who decided to change her career path to the death care field at age 50, says, “The main reason I became a funeral director was to help people understand and deal with death & dying differently.” Ovenell embraces the ability to plan and prepare for death and feels education is the key to embracing this unavoidable part of life.

This is exactly what you will find locally when you work with Toledo Memorial Park (the Park). The team of professionals at the park are ready to help. They can answer your questions and connect you with the right people. Contact the Park today to discuss preplanning or to have any questions you may have answered.

Benefits of Prepaying Your Own Funeral

We discuss a lot of difficult topics surrounding death and dying on the Park blog. We’ve talked about pre-planning funeral arrangements before, but today we are diving a little deeper to talk about the benefits of prepaying for your own funeral.

Find your peace of mind

Like any big life event, a funeral is an important and auspicious day. If you have specific desires for the day, the best way to make that happen is to pre-plan and prepay. Making this decision gives you the opportunity to plan all of the details. Some people find this comforting and to be an act of taking care of their loved ones. The funeral providers you choose will carry out the proceedings exactly as you wish.

Simplify things for your family

Losing a loved one is already so hard. Moving right into planning funeral arrangements only adds to their stress and sadness. Prepaying your funeral costs removes this burden from your family. You are gifting them the time to grieve and support each other without trudging through the funeral planning process. They won’t have to make quick decisions and worry about the associated costs.

Avoid family disputes

Because of the heavy emotions that come with grief and loss, unwanted disputes can arise during the stressful planning process. With prepaid arrangements, there is no opportunity for disagreements about plans and money. The plans are clearly made, the family can focus on remembering the good times and start healing.

Financial stability

Prepaying now means the costs are covered by today’s price. Funeral costs increase with inflation, locking in now could save your family significant money. Connect with your financial advisor to discuss the different options available to you for prepaying, such as life insurance.  

Choosing to prepay for your funeral is a very practical decision. It’s becoming more common and people are talking about it, which helps. This decision makes financial sense, it’s helpful to your loved ones, it makes sure your wishes are honored and it can avoid added family stress and drama. If you have questions, the friendly staff at the Park can always help. Reach out today.

Avoid Scams: What You Need to Know

Scams are a very unfortunate part of our reality. We’ve all heard about bank scams and scam phone calls, but scams can run through almost any industry or topic. The death of a loved one is an already very difficult time, the last thing you need to deal with is unscrupulous people exploiting that vulnerability. Let us help you stay aware of potential scams and avoid unnecessary expenses.

Streaming Services:

One funeral director warns of a scam he uncovered where funeral service live streaming was being advertised on social media. The scam alert on this one is that bank details were being requested upfront. Anytime payment is requested upfront before anything else, it’s a big red flag.

High-Pressure Sales Tactics

A good funeral director or funeral service provider will never pressure you for sales. Look for a provider that is caring and understanding during this time in your life. Take your time, ask questions and make sure you feel comfortable with your salesperson.

Misleading Prices

According to the Federal Trade Commission (FTC), funeral homes are required to provide a general price list. If the provider you’re working with doesn’t willingly provide this information, it may be time to leave. Don’t be afraid to compare prices.

Tips to Protect Yourself

• Plan Ahead: Planning funeral arrangements for yourself or a loved one in advance is an excellent way to take the pressure off of yourself while making these important financial decisions. It also allows you to compare prices and make decisions with a clear and focused head. Toledo Memorial Park can help.

• Get Multiple Quotes: Ask questions and get quotes from multiple places. It’s the best way to gain a clear picture of the situation and what is needed.  

• Understand Your Rights and What is Required: Take some time to familiarize yourself with the FTC’s rules. It clearly lays out your rights and the obligations on the funeral providers to help guide you when it’s time to make these important decisions.

Bottom line here is to keep yourself informed on the topic of funeral planning so that you are ready to make focused decisions when the time comes. Your friends at the Park are available and ready whenever you have questions or need to make arrangements.

The Rules around Scattering Ashes

There are a lot of rules and regulations in place for end-of-life processes and procedures. Scattering ashes is a topic that comes up for many people. It’s a lovely and meaningful way to honor a loved one in an extremely personal way. The last thing you want to deal with is trouble while trying to memorialize your lost loved one, so we’ve gathered some helpful information on the topic.

Understanding Federal Laws

While there aren’t really any federal laws specific to scattering ashes, there are regulations for scattering at sea. The Environmental Protection Agency (EPA) states scattering must be done a minimum of three nautical miles from shore. Also noted in the burial at sea information from the EPA is that scattering on inland waters may require a special permit from your state.

Understanding State and Local Laws and Regulations

This is a bit more complicated because the laws and regulations around scattering ashes vary considerably from place to place.

Public Lands:

National Parks: Scattering ashes is allowed in most national parks with a permit. You’ll need to reach out to the specific park you have in mind to obtain the proper paperwork.

State Parks: Scattering ashes on public land is generally permissible in many states, Ohio and Michigan included, but checking into permits with state and local parks is recommended.  

Private Property: Obtain written consent to scatter ashes with the owner.

Final tips:

• Research the laws in the municipality where you intend to scatter ashes.

• Obtain any necessary permits.

• Respect the environment by following the guidelines in place for the location where you plan to scatter.

• Communicate with your family to make sure you are respecting the wishes of your loved one.

Like so many things in life, good planning will make sure scattering your loved one’s ashes goes well. In addition to the tips and helpful information above, we also suggest checking with your preferred cemetery because many places, like Toledo Memorial Park, have designated scattering areas that are serene and beautiful places to memorialize your loved one.

Spring Has Sprung at Toledo Memorial Park

According to local news, April was the rainiest April on record for the Toledo area. The previous record was set in 1929. The grounds and plants at Toledo Memorial Park surely appreciate it.

In early spring, the grounds crew spends their time trimming and cleaning flower bed areas to prepare for perennial regrowth and for the spring bulbs to flower. As the weather warms and the bulbs begin to poke through the dirt giving us something beautiful to enjoy, the crew moves on to planting annuals.

As the weather continues to become delightfully warm and sunny, we invite you to take a stroll through the Park to enjoy the beauty of spring with us.

Your friends at Toledo Memorial Park here for you all year whether it’s time to plan a funeral, make final resting arrangements or if it’s to take some time to yourself with a walk amongst the flowers in the sun. Give us a call if we can help.

Grief is Complex: Understanding Paths Toward Healing and Diverse Funerary Traditions

Grief is a bit of a conundrum because while it is a universal experience, it’s also deeply personal, and how we process grief is unique to each person. Taking the time to understand the differences in funerary traditions and the varying needs of a person suffering grief will help you prepare for your own future needs, but also help you to support the people around you.

Processing Grief:

Grief can take time. It’s important to take the time you need to process grief. Everyone’s timeline for this will be personal and very different. Whether you or your loved one moves through the process quickly or requires a lot of time, both situations are totally valid and should be respected.

It’s okay to seek support. Support shows itself in many forms. Family and friends are a great option for many, but some people do better with therapy, counseling and grief support groups. Grief Share is a great resource for finding a support group in your area.

Other ways to help yourself or a grieving loved one is to keep up with self-care, look for creative outlets, maintain daily routines and set boundaries, among other things that bring comfort.

For some, like in this article, the mere opportunity to fully express their grief helped to bring relief. The author explains that being able to attend funerals as a child helped him process the loss of a loved one. So he, in turn, gave the same opportunity to his own son. By doing so, he encountered unexpected criticism. His son was close with the deceased, and he felt strongly that being allowed to express grief in the moment would have a positive outcome for his child.

This brings up the importance of being respectful of funerary traditions and the personal choices people make around funerals.

Funerary Expectations and Traditions:

Cultural traditions bring diversity to funerals. Western cultures tend to lean toward a ceremony followed by burial or cremation internment at a cemetery. Other cultures may incorporate their own symbolism and ancestral practices. Because the world is becoming more and more diverse, these traditions overlap and become blended as we evolve.

Bringing children to a funeral. This is a deeply personal decision. Perhaps the child was very close to the deceased or maybe the parent doesn’t have childcare available. Whatever the reason, criticism of this choice only leads to hurt feelings.

Traditional versus non-traditional. In the modern times in which we live, tradition can mean a lot of different things to a lot of different people. Decisions around religious and non-religious, burial and cremation, all should earn respect and kindness during the difficult time the family is experiencing.

When it comes to grief and funeral expectations, you are best served by having none. Respect the wishes and decisions the family and other funeral attendees make. You may not know the whole story. You might even be surprised by the wishes of the deceased as in this story.

The Importance of Life Insurance for Women

In a world where the only constant is change, women are being empowered to take charge of their futures. Women play vital roles in so many areas of life. They are full-time workers, caregivers, entrepreneurs and so much more. Women are learning to safeguard their financial future in a variety of ways, but life insurance is often overlooked. According to the 2021 Insurance Barometer Study, just 47 percent of women (compared to 58 percent of men) carry life insurance.

Unfortunately, the gap in women covered by life insurance falls in line with other gaps women face. The wage gap, the disproportionate number of women who perform unpaid labor and a lack of confidence in their own financial literacy. Fortunately, people are talking about this topic in many places and on many platforms, so change is on the horizon.

Financial Security

It’s a well-known fact that life can be unpredictable. Life insurance is an excellent way to create a safety net for the family. We often speak on this blog about easing the burden on loved ones, life insurance is a way to do exactly that. The money can cover mortgage payments, childcare needs, day-to-day expenses and more.

Tailor Coverage to Your Needs

Life insurance is very customizable. From a primary caregiver, to a business owner, to a stay-at-home parent, there is a policy out there that will meet everyone’s needs. Choose between term life insurance that provides affordable coverage for a specific period of time and return-of-premium life insurance which can serve as protection for your loved ones and as a long-term financial investment in your future.

Feel Empowered

Women are increasingly taking charge of their finances.  Life insurance is just one piece of that puzzle. Adequate, tailored coverage can give women peace of mind (another topic we love here at the Park) knowing they have taken the steps to protect their loved ones and their own financial future.

Life insurance gives women control. Making this investment in their future allows women to make sure their families are provided for; their legacy is preserved and their own financial future is intact. Take charge of the constant change of life with the security offered by life insurance coverage.

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Toledo Memorial Park Leads the State for Wreaths Placed during National Wreaths Across America Events 

The venue ranked first for wreaths placed in Ohio and ninth for the country.

Sylvania, OH— In 2023, Toledo Memorial Park (the Park) placed more than nine thousand wreaths on veteran graves making the venue the number one Wreaths Across America location in the state of Ohio and put them in the top ten for the whole country. The annual Wreaths Across America event at the Park takes place every December.

            “This is such an honor for the Park and everyone who volunteers as a part of our Wreaths Across America event,” said Jeff Clegg, president and CEO of the Park. “This is a long-standing event for Toledo Memorial Park and I’m delighted by how much it has grown.

            The mission of Wreaths Across America is to remember the fallen; honor those who serve; and to teach the next generation the value of freedom. The Park works to honor the legacy of first responders and veterans every day and this annual event serves as a capstone of that dedication each year. The 2024 event is scheduled for Dec. 14 at noon.

            Help the Park honor and remember as many fallen heroes as possible in 2024 by sponsoring remembrance wreaths, volunteering on Wreaths Day or inviting your family and friends to attend with you. Specific grave requests at the cemetery can be made by contacting the location coordinator, Mel Harbaugh, at 46elapid@gmail.com to help ensure wreath placement.

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Toledo Memorial Park

Established in 1922, Toledo Memorial Park is the area’s finest cemetery, with 380 beautiful acres of meadows, ponds, magnificent trees, flowering plants and sculptures all designed to celebrate the living beauty of nature. Our goal has been to create a peaceful retreat where generations can gather in beauty and tranquility to remember their loved ones. The non-sectarian, non-denominational, non-profit Park is solely owned by property owners who believe in family, choices and commitment. The Park includes a crematory, mausoleums, chapels, columbariums and burial sections accommodating both lawn level memorials and upright monuments and provides for all individual preferences including earth burial, mausoleum entombment, cremation and inurnment. For more information visit www.ToledoMemorialPark.com or call (419) 882-7151.

Funeral Homes as Important Pillars of our Community

Funeral homes serve the community in myriad ways by providing the vital services that support families during a difficult and even stressful time. Often long-standing members of the community, these businesses understand the needs of the people they serve.

Primarily, the funeral home you choose will assist you in making logistical funeral arrangements. They will help coordinate services such as embalming, cremation, burial, etc., all based on your personal traditions and choices. They can also assist with necessary paperwork. Having a trusted professional to aid in these tasks and decisions can really help carry you through this unusually stressful period in life.

Aside from the to-do checklist referenced above, the funeral home provides a physical space for visitations and funeral services. The space will allow you time to be with loved ones, to mourn and share memories. Be sure to set boundaries with your funeral director around private spaces, like the family room, to allow yourself a place to escape to for periods of silence and respite. The funeral director can enforce boundaries, helping you minimize stress during the funeral.

As you’re planning and working with the team, be sure to inquire about other services. The funeral director and staff will have wonderful recommendations regarding support services within the community such as grief counseling and like-minded cultural or religious/non-religious support groups. The funeral home team provide a certain level of compassionate care that you won’t find elsewhere.

From end-of-life logistics and necessities to long-term support services, your local funeral home is here to help you. Think of them and the entire team as a partnership offering support, guidance and comfort to you and your family.